The numbers of women traveling on their own, either for business or leisure purposes, has risen in the past ten years, and this trend is now receiving due cognizance from the travel pundits. There are now Tour Agencies, Travel Guides, and Travel Websites that, if not devoted entirely to the solo woman traveler, at least have special itineraries, information, and tips intended for such.
If you’re going on your own, here are some common-sense things to remember, gleaned from personal experience and a variety of on-line sources:
1. Research your destination and the safety thereof, and book your hotels in advance. Make sure the hotel is in a good neighborhood.
2. Check that your travel documents are in order and keep extra copies handy. Store copies in your e-mail account that can be accessed from anywhere.
3. Pack light as you will have to carry it all yourself. Keep money in a secure and hidden waist-pouch.
4. Dress conservatively – some cultures require this and, whether you think this fair or not, be mindful of local customs – you’re going on a visit not on a make-over mission – so, as they say, in Rome, don’t be a smart Greek. You will also prevent a lot of unwanted attention and harassment.
5. If you have a penchant for expensive jewelery, squash this penchant for the trip duration. Forgo even expensive-looking jewelery. The kind of petty thief I’m inferring here is a petty thief because he’s not smart to begin with – and he’s not likely to be able to tell the difference between the real thing and the fake. I’ve heard of cases where, having discovered it was fake later, the man actually returned and hit the person he had robbed – for having cheated him!
6. Wear sensible shoes. Not just for running away from Robin Hood, but also because it will be kinder to your feet if you’re going to be doing a lot of walking.
7. Carry a whistle with you. It’s great for drawing attention to yourself – whether the situation warrants it or not.
8. Keep someone regularly informed about your whereabouts, and also keep a mobile phone with you, along with the phone numbers of local police-stations, hospitals, railway and bus services, your embassy.
9. Don’t travel alone at night. No point in being unnecessarily brave.
10. Try to sit next to another woman while traveling on public transport, and, if asking for directions, ask a woman or a man with children.
11. Trust your intuition about people, but it’s wiser not to tell strangers you’re alone or divulge travel plans or personal information. If you feel uneasy about somebody, don’t stick around to test your intuition. Even if it seems rude, better safe than sorry.
12. Think twice too before asking a total stranger to take your photo – they could very well run away with your precious camera. Never take food/drinks from strangers – it might be drugged. And even if it’s not, there’s the remote possibility of ending up with the Delhi-belly or Montezuma’s Curse.
And now take a pinch of salt and don’t become paranoid. While it is always a good idea to remain vigilant, you will realize as you travel that the world is really a far better and friendlier place than is generally assumed. There are plenty of good folk out there that will reach out to you in friendship, transcending the barriers of nationality and race. People who have nothing themselves will joyously offer you something – a part of their life as you pass along their way. It is enough to restore anybody’s faith in humanity.